Jenna Bush Hager found herself revisiting her romantic past after her son, Hal, started asking pointed questions about the people she dated before marrying Henry Hager. The unexpectedly personal conversation unfolded while her husband was out of town, as reported [1] by Page Six.
Bush Hager, 44, recalled the amusing exchange on Tuesday’s episode of “Today with Jenna & Sheinelle.” She said she and 7-year-old Hal were watching an unnamed romantic comedy when its central relationship inspired him to question her.
“He’s like, ‘Mom, do you like anybody the way that girl likes him?’” Bush Hager shared. Faced with the sweet but direct question, she answered, “And I was like, ‘Yes, your father.’”
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Hal was not satisfied with stopping there. He followed up by asking whether his mother had “liked other guys before Dad,” steering the conversation toward the relationships she had before her May 2008 wedding.
That question forced Bush Hager to decide how much of her dating history she wanted to reveal to her young son. “I had to go through the old roster,” she joked while recounting the moment for viewers.
Even then, the journalist did not offer Hal a complete account of every previous romance. Bush Hager said she left out “all the entry levels” and focused only on the “higher-level” boyfriends from her past.
As the conversation continued, Bush Hager began questioning why she was providing so many details. “At some point I was like, what am I doing? Why am I doing this?” she quipped about the increasingly awkward discussion.
Hal, however, still had more questions for his mother. He wanted to know why she had liked those former boyfriends in the first place, requiring Bush Hager to reach even further back into memories from decades earlier.
Her answer made clear that the passage of time had not preserved every detail. “I don’t even remember, Hal! It was 25 years ago!” she responded when asked to explain what had attracted her to her exes.
Despite her momentary disbelief over the direction of the conversation, Bush Hager continued talking with Hal. She used the exchange to explain that dating could be fun rather than shutting down his curiosity about her life before Henry.
The daytime reporter then widened the discussion beyond her own old relationships and encouraged people to embrace dating. “I wanted to get people dating again! What are y’all doing if you’re not dating?” she said. “Love and be loved!”
Bush Hager and Henry share three children. In addition to Hal, they are parents to daughters Poppy, 11, and Mila, 13, giving the couple a family of five.
The pair married in May 2008 at Bush Hager’s family ranch in Texas. Hal’s questions specifically centered on the men his mother had dated before that wedding and the life she ultimately built with Henry.
The television personality has previously spoken openly about her experiences before marriage. During a 2024 episode of her morning show, she admitted that she believed she “didn’t date enough” before settling down with Henry.
“I dated in college. I dated in high school. I didn’t date enough,” Bush Hager told Hoda Kotb, her former host on the program. Kotb later retired in January 2025.
Bush Hager described her earlier dating pattern as moving through committed relationships rather than seeing more people. “You don’t have to stay in a relationship if you are not engaged in it,” she said during that 2024 conversation.
She then offered a blunt assessment of her own romantic history. “I was a serial monogamist, which was fine, but I should have dated more,” Bush Hager said, continuing the same candid approach that later shaped her conversation with Hal.
At the same time, Bush Hager made clear that her reflections were not a criticism of her marriage. She said she and Henry had “built a really incredible life” that made her proud, while advising women that they “should have fun and date” while they can.